...I don't want to remove or clip them, just bend them slightly as some of the T-Trak modules that I run on are not exactly leveled well.
Welllll...I've kept my mouth shut so far, but...exactly why don't you want to "...remove or clip them..."????
If you're not using, nor planning on using ME's "Magnematic" features, then their dongles are totally superfluous, and clipping them off a couple of hairs below the coupler body relieves you of a lot of effort, time and worry.
Just sayin'....
Cheerio!
Bob Gilmore