Bump, how time flies...an update.
I finally had time to take my S2’s to a friend’s yesterday and he reprogrammed the sound-on default to sound-off using his Lokprogrammer using a single command. Slick, the whole exercise took about 5 minutes, including setup. While at it, he also downloaded recent firmware “updates” onto the decoders, whatever that did or does.
Back home on the layout, the engines are now quiet, behaving properly like the rest of my fleet, and don’t speak until spoken to.... all seems well
Thanks to all who provided advice here.
Otto