Y-it,
since you are getting seriously into LEDs, I would recommend getting a resistor kit with bunhch of values. That way you can try various values and see which one will give you the desired brightness.
A good rule of thumb with white LEDs and DCC (around 12V) is to start with 1k ohm (1000 ohm) and go up from there. But for dimmer applications like number boards you might have to go as high as 5k or 10k (or even higher).
Resistor kits are readily available on eBay (and they are cheap). Just search for "resistor kit 1/8W) or something similar. I would go with 0.125 Watt (or 1/8 Watt) since they are physically small. You can get 0.25W size, but those will be physically larger. Many of those kits will be SMD (surface-mount device) resistors. If you are up to some precision soldering, those will give you the most compact installation. .Either mount them on a piece of a copper-clad circuit board, or solder some fine wires to them. This is discussed in
https://www.therailwire.net/forum/index.php?topic=43554.15If you look through various install threads in the DCC forum you will also see examples of using a copper-clad board to hold SMD resistors.